An efficient way to infuse security, counseling and psychological protection for our children is always responding the same way to a behavior and not make our attitude to how we feel that day or our mood, because this shows inconsistency and brings  disastrous results in the education process.

Another important recommendation when we face any  behavioral problem of a child or adolescent, parents must agree before taking any action  . The mutual support of parents, even when they do not share exactly the same view, is very important to convey consistency about assumed criteria, disciplinary measures or to establish  rules and limits for their children. Differences of opinion should be discussed before and never in front of the child, who will see a gap to escape and get away with it.

Parents should be aware that the well used consistent discipline do not harm their relationships with their children, on the contrary,it  favors and contributes to maturity, security, responsibility for the child and the creation of good behavior patterns. Also, parents and other adults in charge of the education of children must close ranks and agree that the rules and limits established in the educational process are always the same.

Discussions of adults and disrespects in the presence of the child  are negative and detrimental to the proper education and normal psychological and social development of the child or adolescent. When we shout or insult  in front of a child trying to cope with their behavioral problems, he will become disrespectful and indifferent to the consequences of his actions. Always remember that we are the mirror in which our children are watching, confronting negative behaviors must start with ourselves.

On the other hand, the drama, irritation and nervousness when we face a negative behavior of a child, aggravated the problem and prevent us from thinking about the right solution. When we can not solve a situation, it is best to see a specialist.

One important thing to bear in mind is that children to respect their parents they need to feel loved, valued and accepted in the same way they feel  the authority, the requirement and respect for them. When in the education process a total imbalance of these conditions prevails,  disorders appear in children's attitude and behavior.   

Numerous results of psychological research suggest that parents are much more likely to raise children successfully, when they love them. The good results in this difficult task of educating will be even greater if they know the limits clearly, sticking to them and not showing excessive and unnecessary severity. Keeping this line will promote the educational success in life for children and better relationships with others.

Often parents, teachers and other adults in charge of the education of children, devote much attention to their inappropriate behaviors and not to the positive and appropriate.  As a result inappropriate behaviors occur more frequently and that are responsible for strengthening them. This is another important element to keep in mind  the process of raising children. Mind you.